**Update–captured a second spectacular rainbow, pics below.  For all pics, click to see the big versions.**

Today started off with fresh home-roasted coffee.  This was a good thing.

Then we went into Moab to run many errands.  It’s strange driving into a city full of enthusiastic tourists, in no hurry to go anywhere.  They are sight-seeing, appreciating the sun and the cool little shops, and the view.

But I just need to buy groceries.

Also, I’m coming into town from a little valley where 300 people live.  Quiet, spacious, and wonderful meets busy, excited and loud.  It’s a bit jarring.

Today we were in Moab so Beth could sign papers and FedEx them to the title company.  We sold our old house in Salt Lake City, and were just wrapping up the final loose ends.  This was a good thing.  🙂

We barely beat the rain storms home.  The temperature dropped from 80 into the 60s, and the rain and wind came.  Up here in the valley, storms can be a bit intense.  All the homes are on five acres, and there are very little trees (this is the High Desert).  When storms come in, they are fierce.

But then the storms leave.  While the air was still saturated from the rain, the Sun came and made the most beautiful rainbow I’ve ever seen.  This was amazing.

Of course, pictures will never do justice to the real thing, I took some anyway, so I could share.  It was magical.

I love it out here.

Here are a few more pics from the storm and the rainbow:

sunflowers and the driveway:

Parriot Mesa after the storm:

Update: after I published this blog post, another rainbow popped up at sunset.  It was brighter and bigger, and looked like it went right over our house.  The only way I could get the whole thing in frame was to do a panorama shot.  Here is the panoramas:

And here is my favorite picture, an edit of the panorama:


Rainbow over Sunhouse

A Rainbow Over Sunhouse

First Morning

Whether it was the excitement of moving in to a new house, or the fact that my bedroom is the designated “cat safe-room” while we put the rest of the house together (the cat food/water and litter box is in there), I did not sleep very well last night.

The wind woke me up around 1:30 a.m.  It was ripping through the tiny trees just outside my window.  I love these kinds of interesting weather moments, but I also needed to sleep.  July 4th was one of the more stressful days in recent memory.

It’s weird being in a new place, where everything is different.  I keep thinking… we really live here.  There’s no home to go back to in Salt Lake where everything is familiar, and I know where to find an F-ing pair of scissors when I need them!  …which is to say I guess the move hasn’t quite sunk in yet.  The house is a disaster, and we will definitely be spending the next several days (weeks??) putting the house together.

But this morning, because I did not sleep well, I woke up earlier than usual and decided to take the dogs for a drive, and then a walk along a section of the Colorado River called Sandy Beach.

I dunno if you’re tired of seeing this view, but I sure am not.  Here’s what it looked like when I left this morning:

sunrise castle valley

And here’s how it looked down on Sandy Beach:

Sandy Beach UT

I didn’t get it captured so well on camera, but for one stretch of the beautiful drive down along the Colorado, two deer popped out of the brush and ran along with me, one on either side of the road.  I slowed down to 15 m.p.h. and just drove behind them for a while, before they decided–seemingly at the same time–to pick one side of the road and sprint away.

It was a pretty fantastic morning, despite the lack of sleep and the chaos of the house!


It’s official.  We bought a house!

Here is Beth signing all the documents (of which there were a million).

signing documents


And the completed package, ready to overnight to the title company.

beth signing

Tuesday is just about over… just Wednesday and Thursday to get through and then it’s


Castle Valley

After living in Salt Lake City for seven years, I’m moving!

Beth and I are moving to a tiny little town called Castle Valley, in south-eastern Utah.

Here’s a picture of Castle Valley that really doesn’t do it justice (because it’s so wonderful in-person):

Castle Valley View

The Story of How We Found Castle Valley

In April of this year, my dad came to visit us.  Beth and I had previously visited Moab (in October 2013 when they closed the National Parks), and Dad had a friend who stayed in Moab for half the year, so we wanted to take him down there, and he wanted to go.  After hiking at Arches National Park Friday evening and Saturday morning with my father, he wanted to chill in the hotel room, so I went out with Beth.

Here is how Beth and I vacation: wander around the city/area looking for stuff to see or do.  At the entrance to Moab, where the Colorado river crosses the main road, there was a sign that said “Castle Valley 17.”  Seventeen miles to Castle Valley.  We didn’t feel like hiking, so we decided to explore.  What’s a Castle Valley?   Maybe it’s a nice town where we can have a nice lunch.

So we drove along the Colorado River, one of the more scenic drives I’ve ever been on.  Eventually we saw a historical marker, and, that being the kind of thing we do, we stopped for it.  Just off the main road was a gravel pull-off area, but no sign of a historical marker.  Beth suggested we drive farther down this new road, driving away from the Colorado river, to explore.


So we did, and about 10 minutes later we found ourselves at the entrance of a little town called Castle Valley.  Oh!  THIS is Castle Valley.  I had thought it would be farther up the road, but no.  Here is was.  So we drove around.  And it was gorgeous.  Remote, surrounded on all sides by beautiful landscapes:

On one side is Castleton Tower, a very striking rock formation.

Opposite that is a giant cliff face that stretches the length of (and beyond) the city.

At the end of the valley is a tiny cone of a mountain called Round Mountain, and beyond that, looming like a mother bear, the giant La Sal Mountains.

We could live here, we said.

No really, we could.

Well, why shouldn’t we?  It is a magical little valley, we could move here forever and be happy.  So we decided to.  It probably took 10 minutes of being in the valley to decide that we should.  Even before we looked at housing prices, even before we knew for sure if Beth could get approved for telecommuting, we knew we would figure out a way.

Why Leave the Salt Lake Valley?

Salt Lake City is beautiful.  When I first visited in 2006, I was blown away.  Mountains!  Snow!  Public Transportation!  The city was vibrant in a way that cities in Florida are not.  There are museums and hiking trails and cool little local shops, and oh yeah, Mountains.

But Beth and I have always talked about moving to a small town.  Every vacation we’ve taken has been to (or driving through) small town.  I would love to live out in the country, we’d say.  Look how quiet it is, how fresh the air is!  Those little towns were never quite right, never quite feeling like a destination.  So we kept looking.

Actually, the number 1 reason to move is that Castle Valley is lovely, and perfect for us.

Though Salt Lake City has a lot going for it, and I love a lot of things about it, there are some things that we don’t enjoy.

1.) Smog

Through the magical meteorological process called INVERSION, bad, toxic air gets trapped in the valley, and hangs out for most of December – February.  In July, fires from west of the city blow into the Salt Lake valley, and hang around in the sometimes stale, stagnant summer air until a storm comes through and pushes it away.  While we don’t have it as bad as some cities in California or Southeastern Asia, every January we have the worst air in the nation.

If you’ve never had to live in a smoggy place for an extended period of time, I’ll try and describe it.  You feel tired all the time.  Your chest feels heavy and your throat is constantly scratchy.  Your eyes get itchy and your head aches all the time.  Constantly.  For days.

Here is what the valley looks like every January:

Salt Lake City Smogphoto credit: leggnet

The air in Castle Valley is extremely fresh.  There are no major interstates, cities, or industrial plants nearby.  It’s amazing.

2.) Noise

Directly across from my office window in Salt Lake City is a club that hosts live bands every night from 10pm to 2am.  They are careless about their noise pollution, but they are still within the state’s allowable decibels, so there was nothing I could do to get away from the noise.  Thanks, Urban Lounge.

Every night, I hear and feel the THUMP THUMP THUMP THUMP of dance and rap music in my office, as clearly as if there were a car with a $5,000 audio system parked outside my window.  This noise is made worse by my hearing damage (from years of playing drums): I am especially sensitive to sounds in the lower sonic spectrum, so I hear this much clearer than other people have reported hearing it while standing in my office.

There’s also an office building on our block with an industrial heater and air conditioner.  All year long there is deep, throbbing HUMMM of one kind or another.  The parking garage behind our house amplifies the noise, and you can hear it very clearly in both bedrooms.

Not to sound too old and grumpy, but our neighborhood can be a bit loud.  Drunk people walking home/to their cars at night, dogs in neighboring houses ALWAYS barking, cars with bassy speakers or loud mufflers, etc.  **Shakes fist at everybody.

Castle Valley is blissfully quiet.  No sounds from cars with loud mufflers or speakers, no dogs barking, no concert speakers or industrial temperature-controlling-equipment.  Just nature.  Bird sounds.  Insect sounds.  Other animal sounds I couldn’t identify.  Mmm.

3.) Traffic

Plain and simple, traffic makes us both unhappy and uncomfortable.  Every week, either as a pedestrian or as a driver we are involved in one close call after another.  Again, not to sound like a cartoon character here, but people are getting worse at driving.  I am amazed at how many people are texting on their phones instead of paying attention to what they’re doing on the road.  It scares the hell out of me.

Also, our PARKED CAR, sitting IN FRONT OF OUR HOUSE has been hit TWICE by an impaired driver (once it was meds, and once it was alcohol).

No thanks.  We’re moving to a town of ~300 with ONE paved road going through town.

Finding Sun House

We’d been looking at houses in Castle Valley for about two or three weeks when I found one that wasn’t listed on any of the sites we’d been looking at.  The pictures of the living room and dining room were lovely, the shots of the outside of the house looked very interested, but the kitchen… it was the kitchen that sold it.  I sent the pic to Beth knowing she would love it.  It’s a big kitchen, with the appliances set into the cabinets, and a nice, big island in the center of the kitchen (with a stove set into the island).  In fact, here is the picture we saw:

Kitchen Listing

It’s so bright and open!  So much space to cook.  Beth and I both enjoy cooking, so we were definitely looking for something with a nice, big kitchen.

The photos were all very nice, and we added it to our list of houses to look at when we visited Castle Valley again with our realtor.  In the mean time, we continued to look at houses and real estate websites.  We started naming all the houses, and called this one Murder House, because it only showed the kitchen, living room, and outside the house, but not the bedrooms (so those are where the murders happened.  LOL, Beth).

Eventually, we decided to call the house Sun House, because it has a sun room, lots of windows, and is very open and bright.

As soon as we toured Sun House, we knew it was Our House.  It has enough bedrooms that we could each have our own spacious office (since we both work from home).  It has a big yard (all properties in Castle Valley have five acres), and a detached car port, garage, and a room, so I will have my very own drum room, which is really the most exciting thing I can think of… 🙂

Sun House doesn’t look like much on the outside, but it’s a beautiful house, and it’s really perfect for us and our five animals!

Here’s the view from the front door:

Sun House View

And here is a view of the back of the house (looking the same direction, at Castlton Tower)

Sun House and Castleton

That row of windows there is the sun room. 🙂

Here are a few more pictures of Sun House [note: the inside pictures feature the previous owners furniture–I will post pictures of how it looks once we’ve moved in and decorated it ourselves]

Living Room and Sun Room Entrance

The living room and bright entrance to the sun room

Sun Room

A view of our sun room

Front Yard Garden

The front yard garden (right outside my office window)

We don’t live there yet (as of the time of this writing), but we’ll be moving in on July 4th.

Saying Goodbye to Dragonfly House

The house we live in now is lovely.  It was built in 1886 (or thereabout) and is absolutely charming.  Beth has lived in this house for about 8 years longer than I have (since 2001).  I’ve got lots of good memories of this house, and I’m sure she has many more.

Here is a picture of the house in Winter, during a heavy snow:

dragonfly house winterGoodbye, Dragonfly House!  You were great.

So that’s the story of Castle Valley.  This is my last weekend in Salt Lake City, and there is a lot to pack, and lots to do.  We’re closing on July 1st, and moving on the 4th.

Here’s to new beginnings! 

Enjoy this massive picture of the Castle Valley area (that little outline of roads and green on the left is the city).

Castle Valley(click to make it larger… it’s a big photo!)

photo source


Came home from walking Lucy, and saw a GIANT fire and a column of smoke coming from very nearby.  I thought it was Smith’s the huge grocery story that was on fire, but it turns out it was a big apartment building (currently under construction).

There were several firetrucks, and a big crowd gathered to watch.

Here’s a short vid I took of the fire:




Today, we said goodbye to our dog, Cassie, who was really the sweetest, happiest, derpiest dog.  Cassie was 14 or 15 years old.  Beth has lived with Cassie for about 13 years now; I’ve lived with her for about 7.

It’s really hard to say goodbye to such a sweetheart.  I am making sure to remember Cassie as the attention-loving chip-eating cat-like-napping hound she was.  I’ll be spending the day remembering Cassie and spending time with my family (including our four other animals).  Below are my favorite pictures of the dog.

So long, Cassieface.

cassie and cats

Laying around the heater


Sharing the cat’s bed


Skeptical Christmas dog!


Cassie letting Kitty use her bed. 🙂


Whoa. Reindeer.


Happy dog (with a belt for a leash because I could not find the leash…)




Chillin at my birthday writing retreat


Family Portrait (with licking dog)


Smog Fog and Snow

So far, this January has been better than the one from 2013.  We’re still dealing with some nasty smog, but the storms that drive it away are a) more frequent, and b) less severe.

As the country is currently being wrecked by a Polar Vortex, Salt Lake City is business as usual.  Smog, Fog, and Snow.

Smog and fog over the Salt Lake Valley


Snowfall obscuring Salt Lake

Gay Marriage – Salt Lake City

Salt Lake City

Today a federal judge struck down Utah’s Amendment 3, which banned gay marriage in our state.

Shortly after, couples arrived at the Salt Lake City courthouse to receive their marriage license.  You can read the full story here.

Beth and I went down there a little after 7:00 p.m., to see the couples and just to be a part of this amazing day.  The courthouse usually closes at 5, but the line to the licensing office was over 200 people deep, officials said anyone in line at 5 would be allowed in.  When we got there at 7, there was a good 50+ people still waiting.

Here’s what Beth said about it on twitter:


It was great.  There were several news crews and photographers there, of course, and families of those getting married.  But it also appears there were people who just came down to the courthouse to, like us, just observe.  People were getting married in the hallway and spaced outside of the clerk’s office.  Several people officiating the marriages at once.  Everyone was so happy.

Who could be there, among all those lovely happy people, and say, “this is a bad thing.”  It was beautiful.

Eventually, they had to turn people away because it was past 7:30, but Senator Dabakis addressed the crowd and said they’d be trying to get the clerk’s office open tomorrow to process more marriage applications.


Here are some pics from the night.

Gay Marriage Utah 2013 Conference

Senator Dabakis addresses the crowd after they closed the clerk’s office.


Gay Marriage Amendment 3 Utah

A couple gets married outside the clerk’s office


Gay Marriage in Salt Lake City

When we first arrived, the line of people waiting to go into the clerk’s office to make things official

First Snow – 2013

Sean Markey | snow day

Say hello to the first snow storm of 2013.  It was quite unexpected!

I snapped this pic as Beth and I were leaving for work.  The only shoes I have are minimalist sandals, so it was a very interesting, cold morning.  Time to go shopping for some proper winter shoes, I guess!


A Perfect Circle – By and Down

markey a perfect circle

Being a fan of A Perfect Circle requires patience.  Their debut album, Mer de Noms was released in May of 2000.  Three years later, the band released their sophomore album 13th Step.

Other than a contractually-obligated third album (which was an album of…interesting song choices), there has been no new music.

Since this is my blog, I’m going to talk for just a moment about what this band means to me.

I was 17 when Mer de Noms came out.  It’s hard to try and talk about the effect this music had on me without sounding like an enthusiastic jackass, but it really did.  As a drummer, as a writer, as a person.  It changed the way I thought about music and writing, and I believe I’m a better person because of this music.

All of that being considered, it’s been a long decade and a half.  But there is happy news.  There are several rumors floating around that new music is being worked on.  And while that means we really won’t see a release for another year or two, at best, it’s a nice thing to hear, since the last official release was 2004.

But to tide us fans over, and maybe torture us a bit, A Perfect Circle has released a studio version of one song.  Written in 2010/2011, By and Down moves slowly, and the sounds and lyrics are wounded, more similar to APC’s first album than their follow up.  I don’t understand all of the lyrics, but I appreciate the layers and the depth.

If this is the kind of music A Perfect Circle is going to be making (and we honestly have no evidence either way), then the long days and years until their next album are just going to pass more slowly.

Until then we have By and Down.  Have a listen below: